{"id":9982,"date":"2020-08-13T20:32:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T18:32:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/?p=9982"},"modified":"2020-09-02T00:36:42","modified_gmt":"2020-09-01T22:36:42","slug":"sest-vlastnosti-ktore-ma-mat-manzelsky-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/clanky\/nazory\/sest-vlastnosti-ktore-ma-mat-manzelsky-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160es\u0165 vlastnost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1 ma\u0165 man\u017eelsk\u00fd partner"},"content":{"rendered":"

Moja man\u017eelka sa vr\u00e1tila domov zo sal\u00f3na kr\u00e1sy a povedala mi o slobodnej \u017eene, ktor\u00e1 jej strihala vlasy. T\u00e1to mlad\u00e1 \u017eena zdie\u013eala svoju frustr\u00e1ciu oh\u013eadom online zoznamiek, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa iba o tom, ako \u013eudia vyzeraj\u00fa. Ak si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee t\u00e1to osoba je sympatick\u00e1, potiahnite t\u00fdmto smerom. Ak nie je, potiahnite opa\u010dn\u00fdm smerom.<\/em><\/p>\n

Lamentovala, \u017ee ke\u010f sa raz s\u00a0niek\u00fdm spoj\u00ed\u0161, zvy\u010dajne t\u00e1 osoba chce len kr\u00e1tkodob\u00fd fyzick\u00fd vz\u0165ah \u2013 ni\u010d dlhodob\u00e9 alebo z\u00e1v\u00e4zn\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\u017dialim nad t\u00fdmi, ktor\u00ed sa sna\u017eia uchopi\u0165 vz\u0165ahov\u00fa intimitu cez tak\u00e9to platformy. Ke\u010f si single a\u00a0t\u00fa\u017ei\u0161 by\u0165 v\u00a0man\u017eelstve, zist\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee ke\u010f vezme\u0161 Bibliu v\u00e1\u017ene, z\u00a0dlhodob\u00e9ho h\u013eadiska sa uk\u00e1\u017ee by\u0165 najlep\u0161\u00edm sprievodcom neh\u013eadiac na povrchn\u00e9 krit\u00e9ri\u00e1, na ktor\u00e9 sa n\u00e1s svet n\u00fati zamera\u0165.<\/p>\n

Konkr\u00e9tne 31. kapitola Pr\u00edslov\u00ed pon\u00faka ur\u010dit\u00e9 objasnenie toho, ak\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00e9 trajekt\u00f3rie h\u013eada\u0165 u man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho partnera. Tento popis sa pozer\u00e1 sp\u00e4\u0165 cez mnoho vern\u00fdch obdob\u00ed v \u017eivote s\u00facej \u017eeny<\/em>, av\u0161ak na tieto charakteristiky sa m\u00f4\u017eeme pozrie\u0165 aj z\u00a0poh\u013eadu toho, \u010do by \u017eena mala h\u013eada\u0165 v\u00a0\u017eivotnom smerovan\u00ed mu\u017ea.<\/p>\n

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  1. Dodr\u017eiava t\u00e1to osoba svoje slovo?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    11. ver\u0161: \u201eSrdce jej mu\u017ea jej d\u00f4veruje.\u201d Nikdy sa neob\u00e1va o jej vernos\u0165 k nemu. Nikdy sa nemus\u00ed zam\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165, \u010di spolo\u010dn\u00e9 peniaze pou\u017e\u00edva poctivo alebo hl\u00fapo.<\/p>\n

    Ke\u010f spozn\u00e1\u0161 niekoho, kto by bol potencion\u00e1lnym man\u017eelsk\u00fdm partnerom, zv\u00e1\u017e, \u010di je t\u00e1to osoba \u010destn\u00e1 a\u00a0d\u00f4veryhodn\u00e1. M\u00e1 za sebou hist\u00f3riu splnen\u00fdch s\u013eubov?<\/p>\n

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    1. Posil\u0148uje \u0165a t\u00e1to osoba?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      12. ver\u0161: \u201eRob\u00ed mu dobre a nie zle, po v\u0161etky dni svojho \u017eivota.\u201d 23. ver\u0161: \u201eJej mu\u017e je zn\u00e1my v br\u00e1nach, ke\u010f sed\u00e1va so star\u0161\u00edmi krajiny.\u201d Zd\u00e1 sa to \u010dudn\u00e9, \u017ee presne uprostred tejto pas\u00e1\u017ee o\u00a0\u017eene, ktor\u00e1 sa boj\u00ed P\u00e1na, je ver\u0161 o\u00a0man\u017eelovi. Ide v\u0161ak o z\u00e1v\u00e4zok \u017eeny vo\u010di man\u017eelovi. Jej pr\u00e1ca doma a\u00a0slu\u017eba svojmu man\u017eelovi prospieva jeho reput\u00e1cii a\u00a0\u00faspechu. Je lep\u0161\u00edm mu\u017eom, preto\u017ee je jej man\u017eelom.<\/p>\n

      H\u013eadaj osobu do man\u017eelstva, ktor\u00e1 \u0165a bude povzbudzova\u0165 a\u00a0pracova\u0165 s\u00a0tebou bok po boku. Man\u017eelsk\u00fd p\u00e1r by mal by\u0165 silnej\u0161\u00ed spolu ne\u017e osobitne.<\/p>\n

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      1. Je t\u00e1to osoba pracovit\u00e1?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        13.-16. ver\u0161:<\/p>\n

        „Star\u00e1 sa o vlnu a \u013ean, rada pracuje usilovn\u00fdmi rukami. Podob\u00e1 sa obchodn\u00fdm lodiam, z\u010faleka prin\u00e1\u0161a svoju potravu. E\u0161te za noci vst\u00e1va, vyd\u00e1va pokrm svojim … slu\u017eobn\u00ed\u010dkam. Pom\u00fd\u0161\u013ea na pole a kupuje ho, z ovocia svojich r\u00fak vys\u00e1dza vinicu.“<\/p>\n

        H\u013eadaj niekoho, kto je disciplinovan\u00fd a\u00a0usilovn\u00fd, kto m\u00e1 ciele a\u00a0pracuje na nich, kto za\u010dne projekt a\u00a0aj ho dokon\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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        1. Je t\u00e1to osoba \u0161tedr\u00e1 a pohostinn\u00e1?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          20. ver\u0161: \u201eOtv\u00e1ra svoju dla\u0148 bed\u00e1rovi a ruky vystiera k chudobn\u00e9mu.\u201d<\/p>\n

          Tak\u00e1to \u017eena sa star\u00e1 o potreby svojej rodiny, ale takisto pozer\u00e1 aj na potreby in\u00fdch okolo nej. Je \u0161tedr\u00e1, pohostinn\u00e1 a u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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          1. Je t\u00e1to osoba m\u00fadra a\u00a0t\u00fa\u017ei pom\u00e1ha\u0165 in\u00fdm?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            26. ver\u0161: \u201eS m\u00fadros\u0165ou otv\u00e1ra svoje \u00fasta, na jazyku m\u00e1 l\u00e1skav\u00e9 nau\u010denie.\u201d H\u013ead\u00e1 sp\u00f4soby, ako pom\u00f4c\u0165 in\u00fdm \u2013 prakticky, materi\u00e1lne a\u00a0tie\u017e emocion\u00e1lne a\u00a0duchovne. Je m\u00fadra a\u00a0ostatn\u00ed bud\u00fa h\u013eada\u0165 jej m\u00fadru radu a\u00a0\u0165a\u017ei\u0165 z\u00a0nej.<\/p>\n

            Chce\u0161 si zobra\u0165 tak\u00fato osobu \u2013 niekoho, kto nie je pohlten\u00fd svojimi sebeck\u00fdmi aktivitami a z\u00e1bavami, ale kto r\u00e1d pom\u00e1ha in\u00fdm a rozd\u00e1va m\u00fadre rady?<\/p>\n

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            1. Skuto\u010dne ver\u00ed t\u00e1to osoba P\u00e1novi Je\u017ei\u0161ovi?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Nie je premo\u017een\u00e1 strachom, preto\u017ee d\u00f4veruje v svojho P\u00e1na. 25. ver\u0161: \u201eS \u00fasmevom sa d\u00edva na bud\u00faci de\u0148.\u201d Tak\u00e1to \u017eena sa boj\u00ed P\u00e1na a z tohto zdrav\u00e9ho strachu plynie m\u00fadros\u0165, l\u00e1skavos\u0165 a pracovitos\u0165. \u010cestn\u00e1 zbo\u017en\u00e1 \u017eena d\u00f4veruje v Boha a Jeho prozrete\u013en\u00e9 pl\u00e1ny pre \u0148u. Preto nebude ustarosten\u00e1 o detaily bud\u00facnosti.<\/p>\n

              T\u00e1to ot\u00e1zka smeruje k\u00a0z\u00e1kladnej vlastnosti, ktor\u00fa je treba h\u013eada\u0165 u\u00a0man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho partnera: Boj\u00ed sa t\u00e1to osoba P\u00e1na? Je kres\u0165anom? <\/em>V tomto bode nerob kompromisy. Nesta\u0148 sa \u201e\u0165aha\u010dom jarma\u201c s niek\u00fdm, kto nezdie\u013ea tvoju najz\u00e1kladnej\u0161iu identitu v \u017eivote (2. Korintsk\u00fdm 6:14). Kristus mus\u00ed by\u0165 z\u00e1kladom vz\u0165ahu, kde vy dvaja spolu h\u013ead\u00edte na Neho, d\u00f4verujete Mu a spolo\u010dne sa te\u0161\u00edte na nadch\u00e1dzaj\u00face dni.<\/p>\n

              Neuspokoj sa<\/strong><\/p>\n

              Sn\u00edvaj, modli sa a h\u013eadaj radu oh\u013eadom vlastnost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 by si mal h\u013eada\u0165 v potencion\u00e1lnom man\u017eelskom partnerovi, a zaumie\u0148 si, \u017ee sa neuspokoj\u00ed\u0161 s ni\u010d\u00edm men\u0161\u00edm. Nedovo\u013e, aby h\u013eadanie partnera bolo poh\u00e1\u0148an\u00e9 vonkaj\u0161\u00edm vzh\u013eadom. \u201eAko zlat\u00e1 obr\u00fa\u010dka v ryp\u00e1ku svine je pekn\u00e1 \u017eena bez jemnocitu.\u201d (Pr\u00edslovia 11:22)<\/p>\n

              Poh\u013ead sveta na randenie je cestou bl\u00e1znovstva a bolesti. H\u013eadaj osobu s biblickou rozvahou, vlastnos\u0165ou, ktor\u00e1 je zriedkav\u00e1 a prospe\u0161n\u00e1. Ke\u010f odpo\u010d\u00edva\u0161 v Bo\u017eom pl\u00e1ne, v Jeho na\u010dasovan\u00ed sa modli za man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho partnera, ktor\u00fd je d\u00f4veryhodn\u00fd, ochotn\u00fd, pracovit\u00fd, s\u00facitn\u00fd, m\u00fadry a vern\u00fd P\u00e1novi Je\u017ei\u0161ovi.<\/p>\n

              A\u00a0e\u0161te jedna vec: Nebu\u010f v\u00a0tom s\u00e1m. Nepredpokladaj, \u017ee s\u00e1m m\u00e1\u0161 dostatok inform\u00e1ci\u00ed vyhodnoti\u0165 potencion\u00e1lneho man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho partnera. Ke\u010f s\u00a0niek\u00fdm rand\u00ed\u0161, predstav t\u00fato osobu \u010do najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161iemu po\u010dtu svojich priate\u013eov, hlavne svojej zborovej rodine. P\u00fdtaj sa ich, \u010do si \u00faprimne myslia a\u00a0h\u013eadaj varovn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, ktor\u00e9 vysielaj\u00fa. Takto vyzer\u00e1 pokora po\u010das randenia \u2013 poz\u00fdva\u0165 radu in\u00fdch a\u00a0neveri\u0165 l\u017ei, \u017ee ty vie\u0161 predsa lep\u0161ie ako ostatn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

              Nech m\u00fadros\u0165 P\u00edsma \u2013 a\u00a0nie povrchnos\u0165 – sprev\u00e1dza tvoje rozhodnutia pri randen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

              „Spanilos\u0165 je klam a kr\u00e1sa je m\u00e1rnos\u0165; ale \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 sa boj\u00ed Hospodina, zasluhuje si pochvalu.“ (Pr\u00edslovia 31:30)<\/p>\n

              Ben Reaoch<\/em><\/p>\n

              Prelo\u017een\u00e9 z: https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/articles\/six-traits-to-look-for-in-a-spouse<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

              Moja man\u017eelka sa vr\u00e1tila domov zo sal\u00f3na kr\u00e1sy a povedala mi o slobodnej \u017eene, ktor\u00e1 jej strihala vlasy. T\u00e1to mlad\u00e1 \u017eena zdie\u013eala svoju frustr\u00e1ciu oh\u013eadom online zoznamiek, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa iba o tom, ako \u013eudia vyzeraj\u00fa. Ak si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee t\u00e1to osoba je sympatick\u00e1, potiahnite t\u00fdmto smerom. Ak nie je, potiahnite opa\u010dn\u00fdm smerom.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9983,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[83],"tags":[132,133],"ppma_author":[277],"class_list":["post-9982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nazory","tag-krestansky-zivot","tag-manzelstvo"],"authors":[{"term_id":277,"user_id":87,"is_guest":0,"slug":null,"display_name":"Ben Reaoch","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e28b270fd11b37ce60b7874faca033f6e0496216c347c91bc894937dae5e6526?s=96&d=mm&r=g","0":null,"1":"","2":"","3":"","4":"","5":"","6":"","7":"","8":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9982","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9982"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9982\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9982"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9982"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9982"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=9982"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}