{"id":6142,"date":"2018-02-18T22:45:19","date_gmt":"2018-02-18T21:45:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/d.websupport.sk\/pravdavlaske.sk\/?p=6142"},"modified":"2019-11-06T19:28:07","modified_gmt":"2019-11-06T18:28:07","slug":"comu-sa-ucia-vase-deti-od-vas-vii-cast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/clanky\/nazory\/comu-sa-ucia-vase-deti-od-vas-vii-cast\/","title":{"rendered":"\u010comu sa u\u010dia va\u0161e deti od v\u00e1s? – VII. \u010das\u0165"},"content":{"rendered":"

Predch\u00e1dzaj\u00faca 6. \u010das\u0165<\/a> s\u00e9rie 7 \u010dl\u00e1nkov o rodi\u010dovstve s n\u00e1zvom \u201eNaplnen\u00e1 rodina\u201c.<\/p>\n

U\u010dia sa va\u0161e deti od v\u00e1s radosti a\u00a0po\u017eehnaniu z\u00a0podriadenosti Bo\u017eiemu slovu a\u00a0Jeho v\u00f4li alebo len po\u010d\u00favaj\u00fa o frustr\u00e1cii a\u00a0sklamaniach? Vidia v\u00e1\u0161 pokoj prameniaci z\u00a0Bo\u017eej zvrchovanosti alebo vidia vo v\u00e1s len sam\u00e9 obavy a\u00a0strach? U\u010dia sa od v\u00e1s prav\u00fdm hodnot\u00e1m, ak\u00fdmi s\u00fa spravodlivos\u0165, d\u00f4vera a\u00a0usilovnos\u0165? Alebo sa od v\u00e1s u\u010dia tomu, ako by\u0165 klam\u00e1rom, podvodn\u00edkom a\u00a0pokrytcom?<\/p>\n

Va\u0161e deti m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 pod vplyvom vern\u00e9ho k\u00e1zania Bo\u017eieho slova a\u00a0m\u00f4\u017eu by\u0165 veden\u00e9 k\u00a0spr\u00e1vnemu ch\u00e1paniu evanjelia. Ale \u010do sa u\u010dia pozorovan\u00edm v\u00e1\u0161ho ka\u017edodenn\u00e9ho \u017eivota? Ak\u00fdm svedectvom je pre nich v\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot? U\u010d\u00ed ich by\u0165 zbo\u017en\u00fdmi a vern\u00fdmi mu\u017emi a\u00a0\u017eenami?<\/p>\n

U\u010dte va\u0161e deti m\u00fadrosti<\/strong><\/p>\n

U\u010di\u0165 deti evanjelium nie je jedinou u\u010dite\u013eskou zodpovednos\u0165ou rodi\u010dov. Je rovnako d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9, aby rodi\u010dia u\u010dili svoje deti m\u00fadrosti po cel\u00fd ich \u017eivot. Evanjelium je nevyhnutn\u00fdm za\u010diato\u010dn\u00fdm bodom, lebo \u201epo\u010diatkom m\u00fadrosti je b\u00e1ze\u0148 pred Hospodinom.\u201c (\u017dalm 111:10). Nikto, kto odmieta a\u00a0ignoruje posolstvo evanjelia, nie je naozaj m\u00fadry.<\/p>\n

Ale okrem pr\u00e1vd evanjelia je v\u00a0Biblii mnoho in\u00fdch u\u017eito\u010dn\u00fdch r\u00e1d o\u00a0charaktere, bez\u00fahonnosti, spravodlivosti, obozretnosti, rozli\u0161ovan\u00ed a\u00a0r\u00f4znych in\u00fdch praktick\u00fdch ot\u00e1zkach \u017eivota. Rodi\u010dia s\u00fa povinn\u00ed starostlivo vyu\u010dova\u0165 svoje deti Bo\u017eej m\u00fadrosti vo v\u0161etk\u00fdch ot\u00e1zkach \u017eivota.<\/p>\n

Kniha Pr\u00edslov\u00ed je zhrnut\u00edm praktickej m\u00fadrosti. Tieto pr\u00edslovia boli zaznamenan\u00e9 kr\u00e1\u013eom \u0160alam\u00fanom pre dobro jeho syna. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu z\u00a0nich nap\u00edsal s\u00e1m \u0160alam\u00fan, niektor\u00e9 zozbieral od in\u00fdch m\u00fadrych \u013eud\u00ed. Tie najlep\u0161ie praktick\u00e9 m\u00fadrosti pre ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dloveka s\u00fa zhrnut\u00e9 do \u0160alam\u00fanovej knihy Pr\u00edslov\u00ed s\u00a0pe\u010da\u0165ou Bo\u017eej in\u0161pir\u00e1cie, ktor\u00e1 zaru\u010duje, \u017ee v\u0161etky tieto v\u00fdroky s\u00fa: \u201e…u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 k vyu\u010dovaniu, karhaniu, napravovaniu a\u00a0k\u00a0v\u00fdchove v\u00a0spravodlivosti\u201c (2. Timoteovi 3:16).<\/p>\n

Kniha Pr\u00edslov\u00ed je teda vhodnou pr\u00edru\u010dkou pre rodi\u010dov a\u00a0najm\u00e4 pre otcov k\u00a0vyu\u010dovaniu det\u00ed praktickej m\u00fadrosti potrebnej k\u00a0\u00faspe\u0161n\u00e9mu \u017eivotu uctievaj\u00facemu Boha. Je to in\u0161pirovan\u00e1 kniha m\u00fadrosti od najm\u00fadrej\u0161ieho otca, ak\u00fd kedy \u017eil. Je to \u017eivotne d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fd s\u00fahrn praktickej m\u00fadrosti, ktor\u00fa by mali svojim de\u0165om preda\u0165 v\u0161etci rodi\u010dia.<\/p>\n

\u0160alam\u00fan adresuje tieto napomenutia svojmu synovi v\u00a0\u00favodn\u00fdch ver\u0161och: \u201ePo\u010d\u00favaj, syn m\u00f4j, napom\u00ednanie svojho otca a\u00a0nezavrhuj po\u00fa\u010danie svojej matky, lebo s\u00fa \u013e\u00fabezn\u00fdm vencom na tvojej hlave a\u00a0\u0161perkom na tvojom hrdle.\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 1:8-9).<\/p>\n

Podobn\u00e9 upozornenia sa viackr\u00e1t opakuj\u00fa v\u00a0Pr\u00edsloviach: \u201eSyn m\u00f4j, ak prijme\u0161 moje slov\u00e1 a\u00a0zachov\u00e1\u0161 si v\u00a0mysli moje prik\u00e1zania…\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 2:1); \u201eSyn m\u00f4j, nezab\u00fadaj na moje nau\u010denie a\u00a0tvoje srdce nech zachov\u00e1va moje pr\u00edkazy…\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 3:1); \u201eSynovia po\u010d\u00favajte otcovu k\u00e1ze\u0148, a\u00a0pozorujte, aby ste sa nau\u010dili rozumnosti…\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 4:1); \u201ePo\u010d\u00favaj, syn m\u00f4j, a\u00a0prijmi moje re\u010di, rozmno\u017eia sa roky tvojho \u017eivota.\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 4:10); \u201eSyn m\u00f4j, pozoruj moju m\u00fadros\u0165, naklo\u0148 si ucho k\u00a0mojej rozumnosti…\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 5:1). \u201eSyn m\u00f4j, zachov\u00e1vaj prik\u00e1zanie svojho otca a\u00a0nepoh\u0155daj po\u00fa\u010dan\u00edm svojej matky.\u201c (Pr\u00edslovia 6:20) a\u00a0e\u0161te mnoho in\u00fdch ver\u0161ov v\u00a0tejto knihe. Toto boli \u0160alam\u00fanove l\u00e1skav\u00e9 upozornenia pre jeho syna, aby venoval ve\u013ek\u00fa pozornos\u0165 t\u00fdmto lekci\u00e1m o\u00a0\u017eivote.<\/p>\n

Tieto m\u00fadrosti m\u00f4\u017eeme aplikova\u0165 aj na na\u0161e vlastn\u00e9 deti, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 si najprv my sami mus\u00edme osvoji\u0165 tieto m\u00fadrosti P\u00edsma a\u00a0\u017ei\u0165 tak\u00e9 \u017eivoty, ktor\u00e9 bud\u00fa reflektova\u0165 tieto pravdy na na\u0161om charaktere. Bez toho bud\u00fa na\u0161e akoko\u013evek m\u00fadre a pravdiv\u00e9 slov\u00e1 pr\u00e1zdne.<\/p>\n

Sila v\u00e1\u0161ho pr\u00edkladu<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e1m \u0160alam\u00fan je pr\u00edkladom toho, ak\u00e9 nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 je \u017ei\u0165 neist\u00fd \u017eivot. \u0160alam\u00fan bol, \u010do sa intelektu t\u00fdka, t\u00fdm najm\u00fadrej\u0161\u00edm mu\u017eom, ak\u00fd kedy \u017eil. 1. kniha Kr\u00e1\u013eov 5:9-11 o\u00a0\u0148om hovor\u00ed:<\/p>\n

\u201eBoh dal \u0160alam\u00fanovi vo ve\u013ekej miere m\u00fadros\u0165 a\u00a0rozvahu, aj \u0161irok\u00fd rozh\u013ead \u2013 podobne ako je piesku na morskom brehu, tak\u017ee \u0160alam\u00fanova m\u00fadros\u0165 prevy\u0161ovala m\u00fadros\u0165 cel\u00e9ho V\u00fdchodu a\u00a0Egypta. Bol m\u00fadrej\u0161\u00ed ako v\u0161etci \u013eudia…\u201c<\/p>\n

S\u00e1m Boh povedal \u0160alam\u00fanovi: \u201eH\u013ea, u\u010din\u00edm pod\u013ea tvojej \u017eiadosti. D\u00e1vam ti m\u00fadre a\u00a0ch\u00e1pav\u00e9 srdce, tak\u017ee tebe rovnak\u00e9ho nebolo ani pred tebou, ani po tebe nepovstane tak\u00fd, ako si ty.\u201c (1. Kr\u00e1\u013eov 3:12).<\/p>\n

Tak\u017ee \u010do sa obsahu \u0160alam\u00fanovej v\u00fdu\u010dby t\u00fdka, nebol tam \u017eiadny nedostatok. Ale ke\u010f pri\u0161lo k\u00a0praktick\u00e9mu \u017eitiu t\u00fdchto m\u00fadrost\u00ed, tak \u0160alam\u00fan zlyhal na plnej \u010diare. Napr\u00edklad: \u0160alam\u00fan zaznamenal mnoho upozornen\u00ed oh\u013eadom nebezpe\u010denstva zvodov cudzej \u017eeny (Pr\u00edslovia 2:16-19; 5:3-13,20; 6:23-29; 7:5-27; 22:14; 31:30). Ale P\u00edsmo hovor\u00ed takto o\u00a0\u0160alam\u00fanovom \u017eivote:<\/p>\n

\u201eKr\u00e1\u013e \u0160alam\u00fan miloval mnoho cudz\u00edch \u017eien: fara\u00f3novu dc\u00e9ru, Mo\u00e1bky, Amm\u00f3nky, Ed\u00f3mky, Sid\u00f3n\u010danky, Chetejky, z\u00a0n\u00e1rodov, o\u00a0ktor\u00fdch povedal Hospodin Izraelcom: Neobcujte s nimi a\u00a0oni nech neobcuj\u00fa s\u00a0vami, inak obr\u00e1tia va\u0161e srdcia ku svojim bohom. \u0160alam\u00fan pri\u013enul k\u00a0nim l\u00e1skou.\u201c (1. kniha Kr\u00e1\u013eov 11:1-2).<\/p>\n

A\u00a0\u010diasto\u010dne kv\u00f4li tomu, \u017ee \u0160alam\u00fan nedok\u00e1zal \u017ei\u0165 pod\u013ea m\u00fadrosti, ktor\u00fa mal, \u0160alam\u00fanov syn Rechabe\u00e1m odmietol jeho u\u010denie (1. kniha Kr\u00e1\u013eov 12:6-11).<\/p>\n

Nebezpe\u010denstvo pokrytectva <\/strong><\/p>\n

Nie je dobr\u00e9 u\u010di\u0165 na\u0161e deti zdrav\u00fa m\u00fadros\u0165 a\u00a0potom \u017ei\u0165 \u017eivot, ktor\u00fd protire\u010d\u00ed tomu, \u010do u\u010d\u00edme. Pravdou je, \u017ee tak\u00fdto pr\u00edstup len zvy\u0161uje pravdepodobnos\u0165 toho, \u017ee va\u0161e deti bud\u00fa poh\u0155da\u0165 a\u00a0odmieta\u0165 Bo\u017eiu m\u00fadros\u0165 a Kristovo evanjelium. Cena za pokrytectvo pri v\u00fdchove je ve\u013emi vysok\u00e1. Ve\u013emi vysok\u00e1.<\/p>\n

V\u00a0\u0160alam\u00fanovom pr\u00edpade sp\u00f4sobilo tak\u00e9to pokrytectvo nie len to, \u017ee jeho syn odmietol Hospodina, ale sp\u00f4sobilo to aj rozdelenie cel\u00e9ho Izraelsk\u00e9ho n\u00e1roda. Toto pokrytectvo sp\u00f4sobilo\u00a0odpadnutie izraelsk\u00e9ho n\u00e1roda od Boha, z\u00a0ktor\u00e9ho sa Izrael u\u017e nikdy nezotavil. \u0160alam\u00fanove rady adresovan\u00e9 jeho synovi boli m\u00fadre. Ale to, ak\u00fdm bol on s\u00e1m pr\u00edkladom pre jeho syna, \u00faplne zdegradovalo v\u00e1hu jeho m\u00fadrych r\u00e1d. Jeho \u017eivot nebol v\u00f4bec v\u00a0s\u00falade s\u00a0jeho u\u010den\u00edm. Nie je v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia chyba, ak\u00fa by mohol rodi\u010d pri v\u00fdchove svojich det\u00ed urobi\u0165.<\/p>\n

Va\u0161a dom\u00e1cnos\u0165 je tou najd\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ou triedou pre va\u0161e die\u0165a. A\u00a0to, \u010do sa tam nau\u010dia, z\u010faleka neza\u010d\u00edna otvoren\u00edm Biblie a ani\u00a0nekon\u010d\u00ed jej zatvoren\u00edm. V\u017edy v\u00e1s bud\u00fa sledova\u0165 a\u00a0u\u010di\u0165 sa z\u00a0v\u00e1\u0161ho pr\u00edkladu: \u010dasto bez toho, aby ste si to v\u00f4bec uvedomili. Toto je ohromn\u00e1 zodpovednos\u0165 a\u00a0z\u00e1rove\u0148 ve\u013ek\u00e1 pr\u00edle\u017eitos\u0165 pre kres\u0165ansk\u00fdch rodi\u010dov, z\u00a0ktorej mus\u00edme vy\u0165a\u017ei\u0165 \u010do najviac pre Bo\u017eiu sl\u00e1vu a\u00a0pre dobro svojich det\u00ed. In\u00fdmi slovami, ak si ako rodi\u010dia uvedomujete, \u017ee \u017eijete pokryteck\u00fd \u017eivot, a odmietate urobi\u0165 n\u00e1pravu, va\u0161e pokrytectvo a absencia v\u00e1\u0161ho skuto\u010dn\u00e9ho pok\u00e1nia sa \u013eahko m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165 d\u00f4vodom toho, pre\u010do va\u0161e deti odmietnu Krista. Mo\u017eno Ho neodmietnu hne\u010f, ale v \u010dase sa to m\u00f4\u017ee uk\u00e1za\u0165.<\/p>\n

Z\u00e1ver<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ku koncu tejto s\u00e9rie o\u00a0rodi\u010dovstve a\u00a0v\u00fdchove det\u00ed, by som v\u00e1m chcel pripomen\u00fa\u0165 nieko\u013eko vec\u00ed. Po\u010das v\u00fdchovy det\u00ed sa budete stret\u00e1va\u0165 s\u00a0probl\u00e9mami a\u00a0z \u010dasu na \u010das aj zlyh\u00e1te. Navy\u0161e, va\u0161e deti v\u00e1s \u010dastokr\u00e1t sklam\u00fa. Nikto z\u00a0n\u00e1s nie je dokonal\u00fd a\u00a0nikto z\u00a0n\u00e1s nedok\u00e1\u017ee do bodky naplni\u0165 \u00falohy a\u00a0povinnosti, ktor\u00e9 n\u00e1m Boh dal v\u00a0na\u0161ich rodin\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

V\u00a0momentoch zlyhania a\u00a0sklaman\u00ed bu\u010fte v\u017edy v\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed za to, \u017ee sl\u00fa\u017eite milostiv\u00e9mu Bohu, ktor\u00e9ho milos\u0165 posta\u010duje na to, aby boli va\u0161e nedostatky prekonan\u00e9 a odpusten\u00e9. Mo\u017eno nebudete ma\u0165 dostatok s\u00edl, m\u00fadrosti alebo trpezlivosti v\u00a0tak\u00fdchto situ\u00e1ci\u00e1ch, ale v\u010faka Jeho milosti v\u00e1m On d\u00e1 v\u0161etko, \u010do budete potrebova\u0165. V\u00a0skuto\u010dnosti je to jedine Bo\u017eia milos\u0165, v\u010faka ktorej m\u00f4\u017eete za\u017e\u00edva\u0165 radostn\u00e9 momenty, \u010di u\u017e v\u00a0man\u017eelskom vz\u0165ahu alebo v rodi\u010dovstve. Aj ke\u010f zlyh\u00e1te v\u00a0t\u00fdchto \u00faloh\u00e1ch, Jeho milos\u0165 m\u00f4\u017ee prekona\u0165 tieto pochybenia alebo v\u00e1m pom\u00f4\u017ee prekona\u0165 n\u00e1sledky, ktor\u00e9 pr\u00eddu s\u00a0tak\u00fdmito zlyhaniami.<\/p>\n

Ako kres\u0165ansk\u00ed man\u017eelia a\u00a0rodi\u010dia mus\u00edme spo\u010din\u00fa\u0165 v\u00a0Bo\u017eej neochvejnej milosti a\u00a0utieka\u0165 sa k Nemu, ke\u010f ak\u00fdmko\u013evek sp\u00f4sobom zlyh\u00e1me v\u00a0nap\u013a\u0148an\u00ed Jeho pl\u00e1nu.<\/p>\n

John MacArthur<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

Prelo\u017een\u00e9 z: https:\/\/www.gty.org\/library\/blog\/B150515<\/a><\/p>\n

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V\u00fdborn\u00e1 kniha o v\u00fdchove det\u00ed od Johna MacArthura: Bo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n pre v\u00fdchovu na\u0161ich det\u00ed. https:\/\/www.dobrasprava.sk\/knihy\/index.php?route=product\/product&product_id=88<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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