{"id":5548,"date":"2017-11-01T19:39:30","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T18:39:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/d.websupport.sk\/pravdavlaske.sk\/?p=5548"},"modified":"2022-07-14T09:17:26","modified_gmt":"2022-07-14T07:17:26","slug":"nasledky-neuspesnych-manzelstiev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/clanky\/nazory\/nasledky-neuspesnych-manzelstiev\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e1sledky ne\u00faspe\u0161n\u00fdch man\u017eelstiev"},"content":{"rendered":"<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-5548-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Manzelstvo-v-Bozich-ociach.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Manzelstvo-v-Bozich-ociach.mp3\">https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/Manzelstvo-v-Bozich-ociach.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p><strong>\u010co je rodina?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ur\u010dite ste postrehli v\u00a0na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti mnoho deb\u00e1t o\u00a0tom, ako odpoveda\u0165 na t\u00fato ot\u00e1zku. Postmodern\u00e9 myslenie, ktor\u00e9 prevl\u00e1da v\u00a0sekul\u00e1rnom svete, je schopn\u00e9 prija\u0165 ak\u00fako\u013evek defin\u00edciu, pokia\u013e nie je pr\u00edli\u0161 konfronta\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>Dokonca aj v\u00a0kres\u0165anskej cirkvi sa mnoho vyzn\u00e1vaj\u00facich veriacich odkl\u00e1\u0148a od biblick\u00e9ho modelu man\u017eelstva a\u00a0rodiny a\u00a0prikl\u00e1\u0148a sa k\u00a0slepej otvorenosti tohto sveta. <!--more-->Tak\u00e9to nie\u010do sa deje, ke\u010f pov\u00fd\u0161ite vlastn\u00fa m\u00fadros\u0165 nad pravdu a\u00a0Bibliu pova\u017eujete len za oby\u010dajn\u00fa knihu star\u00fa 2000 rokov.<\/p>\n<p>Ako m\u00f4\u017ee Bo\u017e\u00ed \u013eud ochr\u00e1ni\u0165 pravdu pred tak\u00fdmito ve\u013ek\u00fdmi a\u00a0v\u0161adepr\u00edtomn\u00fdmi omylmi? Mnoh\u00ed sa pok\u00fasili vyu\u017ei\u0165 politick\u00e9 a\u00a0pr\u00e1vne prostriedky na obranu tradi\u010dn\u00e9ho man\u017eelstva. Av\u0161ak smutn\u00e9 je na tom to, \u017ee mnohokr\u00e1t je mor\u00e1lna autorita cirkvi podkop\u00e1van\u00e1 jej vlastn\u00fdm pokrytectvom. Rozvody, nevera a\u00a0v\u0161etky mo\u017en\u00e9 druhy sexu\u00e1lneho hriechu prenikli aj do cirkvi a\u00a0preto cirkev za\u010dala protire\u010di\u0165 Bo\u017eiemu slovu a\u00a0t\u00fdm p\u00e1dom znehodnocuje svedectvo Bo\u017eieho \u013eudu.<\/p>\n<p>Najlep\u0161\u00edm sp\u00f4sobom, ako ochr\u00e1ni\u0165 a\u00a0udr\u017ea\u0165 v\u00a0povedom\u00ed okolit\u00e9ho sveta potrebu zdrav\u00e9ho man\u017eelstva a\u00a0rodiny zalo\u017eenej na biblick\u00fdch z\u00e1kladoch, nie je pomocou politick\u00fdch alebo pr\u00e1vnych krokov ale skrze \u017eiv\u00e9 a\u00a0vern\u00e9 svedectvo podriadenosti Bo\u017eiemu vedeniu. \u013dudia, ktor\u00ed n\u00e1s pozoruj\u00fa, potrebuj\u00fa vidie\u0165 potrebu Bo\u017eieho vedenia vo svojich \u017eivotoch.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nevyhnutnos\u0165 man\u017eelstva<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0posledn\u00fdch desa\u0165ro\u010diach za\u010dali niektor\u00ed sociol\u00f3govia a\u00a0psychol\u00f3govia tvrdi\u0165, \u017ee man\u017eelstvo sa mus\u00ed radik\u00e1lne zmeni\u0165 alebo dokonca \u00faplne zavrhn\u00fa\u0165. Tak\u00e9to \u201eosvieten\u00e9\u201c myslenie bolo zalo\u017een\u00e9 na z\u00e1klade my\u0161lienky, \u017ee man\u017eelstvo u\u017e nedok\u00e1\u017ee naplni\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00e9 potreby a\u00a0preto mu\u017e a\u00a0\u017eena nepotrebuj\u00fa in\u0161tit\u00faciu, akou je man\u017eelstvo, k\u00a0tomu, aby mohli \u017ei\u0165 produkt\u00edvnym a\u00a0spokojn\u00fdm \u017eivotom. Man\u017eelstvo v\u0161ak nezlyhalo: Probl\u00e9m je sk\u00f4r v\u00a0tom, \u017ee sa mu st\u00e1le viac a\u00a0viac \u013eud\u00ed vyh\u00fdba. A\u00a0aj z\u00a0t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed sa odhodlaj\u00fa vst\u00fapi\u0165 do man\u017eelstva, sa polovica rozhodne ukon\u010di\u0165 man\u017eelstvo namiesto toho, aby sa sna\u017eili a\u00a0pretrvanie man\u017eelsk\u00e9ho zv\u00e4zku.<\/p>\n<p>Dokonca aj vedci zo sveta si v\u0161imli katastrof\u00e1lny dopad rozvodov. V\u00a0roku 1992 Joe Klein nap\u00edsal toto znepokojuj\u00face vyjadrenie:<\/p>\n<p>\u201e\u010c\u00edsla s\u00fa alarmuj\u00face. Existuje ve\u013ek\u00e1 spojitos\u0165 medzi\u00a0rozpadnut\u00fdmi rodinami a\u00a0v\u0161etk\u00fdmi mo\u017en\u00fdmi soci\u00e1lnymi probl\u00e9mami, ak\u00e9 si len viete predstavi\u0165. Pod\u013ea v\u00fdskumu, ktor\u00fd vypracoval Karl Zinsmester, viac ako 80% t\u00edned\u017eerov\u00a0hospitalizovan\u00fdch na psychiatri\u00e1ch poch\u00e1dza z\u00a0rozpadnut\u00fdch rod\u00edn. Pribli\u017ene 3 zo 4 mlad\u00edckych samovr\u00e1\u017ed sa udeje pr\u00e1ve v\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde ch\u00fdba jeden z\u00a0rodi\u010dov. \u0160t\u00fadia A. Smitha a\u00a0G. Roger Jaroura z\u00a0roku 1988 poukazuje na to, \u017ee v\u00a0rodin\u00e1ch, kde s\u00fa deti vychov\u00e1van\u00e9 iba jedn\u00fdm rodi\u010dom, maj\u00fa deti v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00ed sklon ku kriminalite a\u00a0n\u00e1siliu.\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00dapadok man\u017eelstva<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pred 20\u00a0storo\u010diami apo\u0161tol Pavol vedel, ak\u00e1 bude bud\u00facnos\u0165. Vyjadril to slovami v\u00a02. liste Timotejovi 3:1-4.13:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eToto v\u0161ak vedz, \u017ee v\u00a0posledn\u00fdch d\u0148och nastan\u00fa \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 \u010dasy. \u013dudia bud\u00fa toti\u017e sebeck\u00ed, milovn\u00edci pe\u0148az\u00ed, chvastav\u00ed, spupn\u00ed, r\u00fahav\u00ed, rodi\u010dom neposlu\u0161n\u00ed, nev\u010fa\u010dn\u00ed, bezbo\u017en\u00ed, nel\u00e1skav\u00ed, nezmierliv\u00ed, ohov\u00e1ra\u010dn\u00ed, nezdr\u017eanliv\u00ed, divok\u00ed, bez l\u00e1sky k\u00a0dobru, zradcovia, nerozv\u00e1\u017eni, nadut\u00ed, milovn\u00edci sk\u00f4r rozko\u0161\u00ed ako Boha. &#8230; Ale zl\u00ed \u013eudia a\u00a0podvodn\u00edci sa bud\u00fa vzm\u00e1ha\u0165 v\u00a0zlom: Bud\u00fa zv\u00e1dza\u0165 a\u00a0bud\u00fa zv\u00e1dzan\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>V\u0161imnite si prv\u00e9 \u010drty posledn\u00fdch dn\u00ed, ohromn\u00e9 sebavedomie a\u00a0sebeckos\u0165, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa ve\u013emi pr\u00edzna\u010dn\u00e9 pre dne\u0161n\u00fa dobu. Na\u0161a spolo\u010dnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 je z\u00e1visl\u00e1 na z\u00e1bave, sa sna\u017e\u00ed naplni\u0165 v\u0161etky na\u0161e predstavy o\u00a0realite. Perfektn\u00fd sexu\u00e1lny vz\u0165ah, perfektn\u00fd \u017eivotn\u00fd \u0161t\u00fdl a\u00a0dokonal\u00e9 telo sa uk\u00e1zali ako nedostato\u010dn\u00e9, preto\u017ee realita nikdy nedok\u00e1\u017ee naplni\u0165 na\u0161e o\u010dak\u00e1vania. Toto m\u00e1 v\u0161ak najhor\u0161\u00ed dopad na man\u017eelsk\u00fd vz\u0165ah, ke\u010f dvaja \u013eudia nedok\u00e1\u017eu naplni\u0165 svoje o\u010dak\u00e1vania a\u00a0n\u00e1sledkom toho h\u013eadaj\u00fa uspokojenie v\u00a0\u010fal\u0161om vz\u0165ahu, v\u00a0\u010fal\u0161ej sk\u00fasenosti, v\u00a0\u010fal\u0161om vzru\u0161en\u00ed &#8211; na ceste, ktor\u00e1 vedie len ku sebazni\u010deniu a\u00a0do e\u0161te hlb\u0161ej pr\u00e1zdnoty.<\/p>\n<p>Dve z\u00a0nepr\u00e1vost\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 spom\u00ednal Pavol, priamo podkop\u00e1vaj\u00fa rodinu: \u201eneposlu\u0161nos\u0165 rodi\u010dom\u201c a \u201enemilovanie\u201c (alebo nel\u00e1ska). Dom\u00e1cnosti charakterizovan\u00e9 ch\u00fdbaj\u00facou l\u00e1skou a\u00a0poslu\u0161nos\u0165ou s\u00fa ods\u00faden\u00e9 k\u00a0v\u00fdchove det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 bud\u00fa neposlu\u0161n\u00e9 a\u00a0bude im ch\u00fdba\u0165 re\u0161pekt pred akouko\u013evek autoritou. V\u00fdsledkom toho je zvy\u0161ovanie kriminality, samovra\u017edy a\u00a0psychick\u00e9 poruchy. Koniec koncov, ak\u00fdko\u013evek hriech iba oslabuje vz\u0165ah medzi man\u017eelmi, rodi\u010dmi a\u00a0de\u0165mi a aj navz\u00e1jom medzi s\u00farodencami.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u00f4le\u017eitos\u0165 man\u017eelstva<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ke\u010f\u017ee rodina je z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm kame\u0148om \u013eudskej spolo\u010dnosti, tak spolo\u010dnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 nechr\u00e1ni rodinu, podkop\u00e1va svoju vlastn\u00fa existenciu. Ke\u010f rodina zanikne, tak logick\u00fdm d\u00f4sledkom bude anarchia. A\u00a0to je presne to, kam smerujeme. Dnes, viac ako kedyko\u013evek predt\u00fdm, je potrebn\u00e9, aby sa kres\u0165ania postavili sa za pravdu, ktor\u00fa hovor\u00ed Biblia, \u017ee Bo\u017e\u00ed vzor pre man\u017eelstvo a\u00a0rodinu je jedin\u00fdm vzorom, ktor\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee prinies\u0165 do \u017eivota zmysel, \u0161\u0165astie a\u00a0naplnenie.<\/p>\n<p>Ak chceme ovplyvni\u0165 svet na z\u00e1klade tohto vzoru, mus\u00edme by\u0165 in\u00ed. Boh n\u00e1s vol\u00e1 k\u00a0tomu, aby sme boli so\u013eou a\u00a0svetlom v\u00a0tejto temnej a\u00a0rozpadaj\u00facej sa spolo\u010dnosti. Na\u0161ou zodpovednos\u0165ou je prija\u0165 nov\u00fd sp\u00f4sob myslenia, konania a\u00a0nov\u00fd sp\u00f4sob \u017eivota, tak \u201eako je hodn\u00e9 povolania, ktor\u00fdm sme boli povolan\u00ed&#8230; a\u00a0obliekli si nov\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, stvoren\u00e9ho pod\u013ea Boha v\u00a0spravodlivosti a\u00a0sv\u00e4tosti pravdy.\u201c (Efezsk\u00fdm 4:1.24). Nem\u00f4\u017eeme myslie\u0165 tak, ako mysl\u00ed svet. Nem\u00f4\u017eeme kona\u0165 tak, ako kon\u00e1 svet. Nem\u00f4\u017eeme rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 tak, ako rozpr\u00e1va svet, alebo si stanovova\u0165 ciele, ak\u00e9 si stanovuje svet. Mus\u00edme by\u0165 odli\u0161n\u00ed od padl\u00e9ho a\u00a0hrie\u0161neho sveta okolo n\u00e1s!<\/p>\n<p>Apo\u0161tol Pavol a\u00a0zbor v\u00a0Efeze \u010delili kult\u00fare presiaknutej pohansk\u00fdmi ritu\u00e1lmi a\u00a0trad\u00edciami. V\u00a0gr\u00e9ckej spolo\u010dnosti bol \u017eivot obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd pre man\u017eelky. Konkub\u00edny boli be\u017enou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou dom\u00e1cnosti a\u00a0man\u017eelka mala za \u00falohu len vynosi\u0165 legit\u00edmneho potomka a\u00a0stara\u0165 sa o\u00a0dom\u00e1cnos\u0165. Prostit\u00facia mu\u017eov aj \u017eien bola nekontrolovate\u013en\u00e1. Be\u017enou praxou bolo, \u017ee man\u017eelia nach\u00e1dzali sexu\u00e1lne uspokojenie u\u00a0konkub\u00edn alebo u\u00a0prostit\u00fatok, zatia\u013e\u010do man\u017eelky, \u010dasto s\u00a0man\u017eelov\u00fdm po\u017eehnan\u00edm, nach\u00e1dzali sexu\u00e1lne uspokojenie u\u00a0otrokov, u mu\u017esk\u00e9ho tak aj \u017eensk\u00e9ho pohlavia. Prostit\u00facia, homosexualita a\u00a0mnoho in\u00fdch sexu\u00e1lnych zvrhlost\u00ed viedli k\u00a0\u010dast\u00e9mu sexu\u00e1lnemu zneu\u017e\u00edvaniu det\u00ed. R\u00edmska spolo\u010dnos\u0165 bola rovnako skazen\u00e1. Man\u017eelstvo malo len a\u00a0k\u00fasok v\u00e4\u010d\u0161iu hodnotu ako legalizovan\u00e1 prostit\u00facia a\u00a0rozvod bol \u013eahko dosiahnute\u013enou formalitou.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00a0takomto nemor\u00e1lnom svete Pavol napom\u00edna veriacich v\u00a0Efeze a\u00a0vyzdvihuje p\u00f4vodn\u00fd Bo\u017e\u00ed z\u00e1mer pre man\u017eelstvo:<\/p>\n<p>\u201eLebo mu\u017e je hlavou \u017eeny, ako aj Kristus je hlavou cirkvi. On je Spasite\u013eom tela. Ako je teda cirkev poddan\u00e1 Kristovi, tak aj \u017eeny svojim mu\u017eom vo v\u0161etkom. Mu\u017eovia, milujte si svoje \u017eeny, ako aj Kristus miloval cirkev a\u00a0seba sam\u00e9ho vydal za \u0148u&#8230;\u201c Efezsk\u00fdm 5:23-25.<\/p>\n<p>Vz\u0165ah medzi man\u017eelom a\u00a0man\u017eelkou mus\u00ed by\u0165 sv\u00e4t\u00fd a\u00a0nerozlu\u010dn\u00fd, rovnako ako vz\u0165ah medzi Kristom a\u00a0cirkvou. A\u00a0aby sa tak\u00fdto druh vz\u0165ahu stal skuto\u010dnos\u0165ou, Kristus mus\u00ed by\u0165 v\u00a0jeho strede. Iba t\u00ed, ktor\u00ed patria Bohu skrze vieru v\u00a0Jeho Syna, plne pochopia a\u00a0bud\u00fa schopn\u00ed aplikova\u0165 silu t\u00fdchto princ\u00edpov na svoje \u017eivoty. Podriadenos\u0165 jeden druh\u00e9mu nach\u00e1dza svoju moc v\u00a0b\u00e1zni pred Kristom (Efezsk\u00fdm 5:21).<\/p>\n<p>Zdrav\u00e1 rodina m\u00f4\u017ee vznikn\u00fa\u0165 jedine na z\u00e1klade Bo\u017e\u00edch princ\u00edpov, ke\u010f sa \u010dlenovia rodiny st\u00e1vaj\u00fa tak\u00fdmi, ak\u00fdmi ich Boh stvoril \u201ena podobu obrazu Svojho Syna\u201c (Rimanom 8:29). V\u00a0nasleduj\u00facich \u010dl\u00e1nkoch sa pozrieme na to, ako tieto Bo\u017eie princ\u00edpy m\u00f4\u017eeme aplikova\u0165 v\u00a0man\u017eelstve a\u00a0rodine.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/tag\/john-macarthur\/\"><em>John MacArthur<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Prelo\u017een\u00e9 z: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gty.org\/library\/blog\/B150406\">https:\/\/www.gty.org\/library\/blog\/B150406<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/clanky\/nazory\/vzajomna-podriadenost\/\">Nasledovn\u00e1 2. \u010das\u0165 zo s\u00e9rie 6 \u010dl\u00e1nkov \u201eBo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n pre rodinu\u201c<\/a><\/p>\n<p>V\u00fdborn\u00e1 kniha o\u00a0v\u00fdchove det\u00ed od Johna MacArthura: Bo\u017e\u00ed pl\u00e1n pre v\u00fdchovu na\u0161ich det\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dobrasprava.sk\/knihy\/index.php?route=product\/product&amp;product_id=88\">https:\/\/www.dobrasprava.sk\/knihy\/index.php?route=product\/product&amp;product_id=88<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u010co je rodina? Ur\u010dite ste postrehli v\u00a0na\u0161ej spolo\u010dnosti mnoho deb\u00e1t o\u00a0tom, ako odpoveda\u0165 na t\u00fato ot\u00e1zku. Postmodern\u00e9 myslenie, ktor\u00e9 prevl\u00e1da v\u00a0sekul\u00e1rnom svete, je schopn\u00e9 prija\u0165 ak\u00fako\u013evek defin\u00edciu, pokia\u013e nie je pr\u00edli\u0161 konfronta\u010dn\u00e1. Dokonca aj v\u00a0kres\u0165anskej cirkvi sa mnoho vyzn\u00e1vaj\u00facich veriacich odkl\u00e1\u0148a od biblick\u00e9ho modelu man\u017eelstva a\u00a0rodiny a\u00a0prikl\u00e1\u0148a sa k\u00a0slepej otvorenosti tohto sveta.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5579,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[83],"tags":[121,138],"ppma_author":[191],"class_list":["post-5548","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nazory","tag-john-macarthur","tag-rodinny-zivot"],"authors":[{"term_id":191,"user_id":8,"is_guest":0,"slug":"john-macarthur","display_name":"John MacArthur","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&r=g","0":null,"1":"","2":"","3":"","4":"","5":"","6":"","7":"","8":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5548"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5548\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5548"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=5548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}