{"id":10136,"date":"2020-10-30T18:25:11","date_gmt":"2020-10-30T17:25:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/?p=10136"},"modified":"2020-11-14T18:41:24","modified_gmt":"2020-11-14T17:41:24","slug":"biblicka-nadej-pre-zlomene-srdce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/clanky\/nazory\/biblicka-nadej-pre-zlomene-srdce\/","title":{"rendered":"Biblick\u00e1 n\u00e1dej pre zlomen\u00e9 srdce po rozchode"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Moder\u00e1tor: Posluch\u00e1\u010d n\u00e1\u0161ho podcastu Ask Pastor John, menom Brian, sa p\u00fdta: Rozchody vo vz\u0165ahu bolia. Bolia, preto\u017ee sa c\u00edtime by\u0165 odmietnut\u00ed in\u00fdmi, ale bolia tie\u017e preto, lebo odha\u013euj\u00fa na\u0161e osobn\u00e9 chyby. Ke\u010f hnev opadne, sk\u00famame sa, aby sme odhalili, \u010do v\u00a0n\u00e1s zlyhalo pri nap\u013a\u0148an\u00ed o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho d\u00f4vern\u00e9ho priate\u013ea alebo b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera alebo b\u00fdvalej partnerky.<\/em><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em>Tak ak\u00fa n\u00e1dej pon\u00faka Boh kres\u0165anom v\u00a0bolesti z\u00a0rozchodov?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pr\u00edklady rozchodov<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>John Piper: Dovo\u013ete mi za\u010da\u0165 p\u00e1r pr\u00edkladmi bolestiv\u00fdch rozchodov:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ste trin\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e9 diev\u010da a\u00a0dostanete l\u00edsto\u010dek od va\u0161ej najlep\u0161ej priate\u013eky v\u00a0\u0161kole: \u201eU\u017e sa s\u00a0tebou viac nechcem kamar\u00e1ti\u0165.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Ste vo vz\u0165ahu a\u00a0nadob\u00fadate dojem, \u017ee to m\u00f4\u017ee \u00eds\u0165 do nie\u010doho kr\u00e1sneho a\u00a0trv\u00e1cneho a\u00a0va\u0161a priate\u013eka povie: \u201eNemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee by sme sa mali \u010falej v\u00eddava\u0165.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Ste zasn\u00faben\u00e1 a\u00a0dva mesiace pred svadbou, ke\u010f je v\u0161etko v\u00a0plnom pr\u00fade, v\u00e1\u0161 sn\u00fabenec povie: \u201eNedok\u00e1\u017eem to urobi\u0165. Nem\u00f4\u017eem \u00eds\u0165 \u010falej. Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to bude fungova\u0165.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Znovu a\u00a0znovu ste sa sna\u017eili by\u0165 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou r\u00f4znych skup\u00edn v\u00a0zbore alebo v\u00a0pr\u00e1ci a\u00a0nikto sa k\u00a0v\u00e1m neozve. Nikto sa o\u00a0v\u00e1s nezauj\u00edma. V\u0161etky va\u0161e pokusy o\u00a0priate\u013estvo neved\u00fa nikam. A\u00a0ste sami v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu \u010dasu. Nikto nezavol\u00e1. Nikto v\u00e1s nepozve \u00eds\u0165 niekam alebo podnikn\u00fa\u0165 nie\u010do.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Svoj\u00edm sp\u00f4sobom je ka\u017ed\u00e9 z\u00a0toho neuverite\u013ene bolestivou sk\u00fasenos\u0165ou odmietnutia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0160es\u0165 zl\u00fdch odpoved\u00ed na rozchod<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dovo\u013ete mi zmieni\u0165 \u0161es\u0165 mo\u017en\u00fdch odpoved\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 nerie\u0161ia podstatu. S\u00fa to \u00faniky. A\u00a0tak d\u00fafam a\u00a0modl\u00edm sa, aby ich \u013eudia po\u010duli a\u00a0povedali si: \u201eJe aj in\u00e1 cesta vpred.\u201c<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme za\u017e\u00edva\u0165 my\u0161lienky na samovra\u017edu. To\u013eko sme investovali do tohto vz\u0165ahu, \u017ee bez neho \u017eivot nie je hodn\u00fd \u017eitia. (John Piper sa zaober\u00e1 samovra\u017edou podrobnej\u0161ie\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/interviews\/suicide-and-salvation\">tu<\/a>.)<\/li>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme vyjadri\u0165 svoju boles\u0165\u00a0hnevom: \u201eAk\u00e1 hlupa\u0148a! Kto ju v\u00f4bec potrebuje?\u201c<\/li>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme sa utiahnu\u0165 do \u00faplnej samoty, stane sa z\u00a0n\u00e1s soci\u00e1lny pustovn\u00edk a\u00a0nikdy nebudeme riskova\u0165 tak\u00fdto druh vz\u0165ahu.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme sa sna\u017ei\u0165 vylie\u010di\u0165 svoju boles\u0165 pit\u00edm alkoholu alebo prejedan\u00edm sa alebo \u00fapln\u00fdm vrhnut\u00edm sa do pr\u00e1ce a\u00a0nebudeme venova\u0165 v\u00f4bec \u017eiadnu pozornos\u0165 \u013eu\u010fom.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme odpoveda\u0165 znen\u00e1viden\u00edm seba, ktor\u00e9 sa prejav\u00ed v\u00a0anorektick\u00fdch extr\u00e9moch alebo v\u00a0sebapo\u0161kodzovan\u00ed. Poznal som mlad\u00fa \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 si rezala brucho raz za p\u00e1r mesiacov, aby sa dostala do nemocnice a\u00a0aby ju tam za\u0161ili. Op\u00fdtal som sa jej: \u201e \u010co mi m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 zdie\u013ea\u0165 \u2013 hoci\u010do, \u010do mi pom\u00f4\u017ee porozumie\u0165 tomu, \u010do to znamen\u00e1?\u201c A\u00a0ona povedala: \u201eU\u017e\u00edvam si pozornos\u0165, ktor\u00fa dost\u00e1vam na pohotovosti.\u201c Tak\u017ee m\u00f4\u017eete \u00eds\u0165 a\u017e do tak\u00fdch extr\u00e9mov sebapo\u0161kodzovania alebo hladovky.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00f4\u017eeme zdvojn\u00e1sobi\u0165 svoje \u00fasilie o\u00a0pestovan\u00fd zov\u0148aj\u0161ok, tak\u017ee si t\u00fdm kone\u010dne zasl\u00fa\u017eime nie\u010d\u00ed obdiv. A\u00a0tak ona bude pracova\u0165 na svojej postave. Ona bude pracova\u0165 na svojich vlasoch. Ona bude pracova\u0165 na svojom \u0161atn\u00edku. A\u00a0on bude chodi\u0165 \u010dastej\u0161ie posil\u0148ova\u0165 a\u00a0p\u00f4jde na nejak\u00e9 kurzy. Chcem by\u0165 dobr\u00fd spolo\u010dn\u00edk, oprav\u00edm svoju vonkaj\u0161iu tv\u00e1r, aby ma kone\u010dne niekto mal r\u00e1d.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>V\u0161etky z\u00a0t\u00fdchto odpoved\u00ed nech\u00e1vaj\u00fa nedotknut\u00fd ten hlavn\u00fd probl\u00e9m \u2013 ve\u013ek\u00fd bo\u013eav\u00fd ot\u00e1znik, ktor\u00fd sp\u00f4sobil rozchod. \u017diadna z\u00a0t\u00fdchto \u0161iestich odpoved\u00ed nerie\u0161i moju z\u00e1kladn\u00fa identitu alebo moje z\u00e1kladn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy alebo moju z\u00e1kladn\u00fa rados\u0165.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Moja identita<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tu P\u00e1n Je\u017ei\u0161, P\u00e1n vesm\u00edru a Spasite\u013e sveta, je absol\u00fatne nevyhnutn\u00fd, aby vyrie\u0161il tieto veci. Rob\u00ed pre n\u00e1s \u0161tyri veci.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Boh, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s stvoril<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Boh n\u00e1s stvoril pre to, aby sme d\u00f4verovali Jeho m\u00fadrosti, zvrchovanosti a\u00a0dobrote a\u00a0tak nem\u00e1me sam\u00fdch seba odsudzova\u0165 ako chybn\u00fdch a\u00a0bezcenn\u00fdch. Ak to rob\u00edme, ned\u00f4verujeme Mu. On n\u00e1s stvoril s\u00a0na\u0161ou z\u00e1kladnou inteligenciou, na\u0161ou z\u00e1kladnou osobnos\u0165ou a\u00a0na\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1kladn\u00fdm telom.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0ak sa ods\u00fadime k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee nem\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 spasen\u00ed, \u017ee nem\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 milovan\u00ed alebo \u017ee nem\u00f4\u017eeme by\u0165 u\u017eito\u010dn\u00ed, klameme o\u00a0\u0147om. Ned\u00f4verujeme Mu. A\u00a0tak po prv\u00e9, On n\u00e1m d\u00e1va z\u00e1kladn\u00fa d\u00f4le\u017eitos\u0165 na zemi, ke\u010f\u017ee On sa nem\u00fdli v\u00a0tom, \u010do tvor\u00ed. To je \u010d\u00edslo jedna. On n\u00e1s stvoril.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> Boh, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s miluje<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Boh n\u00e1s prij\u00edma a\u00a0odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165a n\u00e1m a\u00a0miluje n\u00e1s napriek v\u0161etk\u00fdm t\u00fdm \u00fa\u010dinkom alebo chyb\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 m\u00f4\u017eu odpudzova\u0165 ostatn\u00fdch. Ak d\u00f4verujeme Jeho z\u00e1stupn\u00e9mu vykupite\u013esk\u00e9mu dielu, zadarmo n\u00e1s ospravedln\u00ed. To je ve\u013ek\u00e1 vz\u00e1cna doktr\u00edna ospravedlnenia jedine vierou. Nemus\u00edme najprv dosiahnu\u0165 Jeho \u0161tandardy a\u00a0potom by\u0165 prijat\u00ed Bohom. To m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 podmienka u\u00a0ostatn\u00fdch, ale nie u\u00a0Boha. Sme prijat\u00ed kv\u00f4li Kristovi a\u00a0Jeho dokonalostiam, nie na\u0161im dokonalostiam. A\u00a0do toho klopeme jedine vierou. To je skaln\u00fd z\u00e1klad na\u0161ej existencie a\u00a0identity. To je n\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1kladn\u00fd vz\u0165ah, to je dar, ktor\u00fd prev\u00e1\u017ei vo vz\u00e1cnosti v\u0161etky ostatn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> Boh, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s nasycuje<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Boh n\u00e1s nasycuje. Kristus n\u00e1s nasycuje nie\u010d\u00edm nekone\u010dne v\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm ne\u017e dobr\u00fdm imid\u017eom \u2013 toti\u017e sebou sam\u00fdm.<\/p>\n<p>Najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm \u0161\u0165ast\u00edm nie je st\u00e1\u0165 pred zrkadlom a\u00a0ma\u0165 r\u00e1d to, \u010do v\u00a0\u0148om vid\u00edme.<\/p>\n<p>Najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm \u0161\u0165ast\u00edm nie je st\u00e1\u0165 pred svetom alebo pred svojou partnerkou s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa jej p\u00e1\u010di, \u010do vid\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161\u00edm \u0161\u0165ast\u00edm dokonca nie je ani st\u00e1\u0165 pred Bohom s\u00a0t\u00fdm, \u017ee sa Mu p\u00e1\u010di to, \u010do vid\u00ed. Prizn\u00e1vam, je to ve\u013ekolep\u00e9 a\u00a0p\u00e1\u010di sa mi to a\u00a0aj to tak bude, ak to bude Boh chcie\u0165, preto\u017ee to spo\u010d\u00edva vo viere v\u00a0Krista.<\/p>\n<p>Najvy\u0161\u0161\u00edm nas\u00fdten\u00edm na\u0161ich du\u0161\u00ed je, \u017ee stoj\u00edme pred Bohom a\u00a0sme nad\u0161en\u00ed kr\u00e1sou Bo\u017eou <em>mimo<\/em> n\u00e1s. On je v\u0161etk\u00fdm v\u00a0tomto momente a\u00a0On je na\u0161ou najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou rados\u0165ou. Najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie radosti s\u00fa tak\u00e9, v\u00a0ktor\u00fdch zab\u00fadame sami na seba v\u00a0pr\u00edtomnosti neskonalej kr\u00e1sy.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong> Boh, ktor\u00fd n\u00e1s posil\u0148uje.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Preto\u017ee na\u0161a z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 identita bola stvoren\u00e1 Bohom, preto\u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1kladn\u00fd vz\u0165ah prij\u00edman\u00fd a\u00a0milovan\u00fd Bohom skrze Krista na z\u00e1klade Krista, preto\u017ee na\u0161a z\u00e1kladn\u00e1 nas\u00fdtenos\u0165, preto\u017ee vid\u00edme Boha ako najkraj\u0161ieho na z\u00e1klade tohto v\u0161etk\u00e9ho, m\u00e1me teraz vn\u00fatorn\u00fa silu pohn\u00fa\u0165 sa do sveta. Nepotrebujeme u\u017e t\u00fa\u017ei\u0165 po prijat\u00ed in\u00fdmi \u013eu\u010fmi, ale milujeme, ke\u010f sa m\u00f4\u017eeme vylia\u0165 pre slu\u017ebu in\u00fdm \u013eu\u010fom. V\u0161etky na\u0161e vz\u0165ahy potom nebud\u00fa zakorenen\u00e9 v\u00a0t\u00fa\u017ebach, ale v\u00a0slu\u017ebe, \u010do m\u00f4\u017ee \u2013 ale aj nemus\u00ed \u2013 ma\u0165 za n\u00e1sledok to, \u017ee \u013eudia bud\u00fa chcie\u0165 by\u0165 s\u00a0nami. Ale toto nie je pointou. To je ved\u013eaj\u0161\u00edm produktom.<\/p>\n<p>A\u00a0tak nehovor\u00edm, \u017ee \u017eivot je bez vz\u0165ahovej bolesti. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 zo str\u00e1t, ktor\u00fa som pop\u00edsal, sa kres\u0165anovi m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165. Stan\u00fa sa mu. A\u00a0bud\u00fa bolie\u0165. To, \u010do hovor\u00edm, v\u0161ak je, \u017ee v\u00a0Kristovi m\u00e1me v\u0161etko, \u010do potrebujeme pre u\u017eito\u010dn\u00fd a\u00a0radostn\u00fd \u017eivot skrze tak\u00fdto druh odmietnutia a\u00a0bolesti.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/tag\/john-piper\/\"><em>John Piper<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Prelo\u017een\u00e9 z: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/interviews\/biblical-hope-for-breakups\">https:\/\/www.desiringgod.org\/interviews\/biblical-hope-for-breakups<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Moder\u00e1tor: Posluch\u00e1\u010d n\u00e1\u0161ho podcastu Ask Pastor John, menom Brian, sa p\u00fdta: Rozchody vo vz\u0165ahu bolia. Bolia, preto\u017ee sa c\u00edtime by\u0165 odmietnut\u00ed in\u00fdmi, ale bolia tie\u017e preto, lebo odha\u013euj\u00fa na\u0161e osobn\u00e9 chyby. Ke\u010f hnev opadne, sk\u00famame sa, aby sme odhalili, \u010do v\u00a0n\u00e1s zlyhalo pri nap\u013a\u0148an\u00ed o\u010dak\u00e1van\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161ho b\u00fdval\u00e9ho d\u00f4vern\u00e9ho priate\u013ea alebo b\u00fdval\u00e9ho partnera alebo b\u00fdvalej partnerky.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10137,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[83],"tags":[123,146,132],"ppma_author":[192],"class_list":["post-10136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nazory","tag-boh","tag-john-piper","tag-krestansky-zivot"],"authors":[{"term_id":192,"user_id":9,"is_guest":0,"slug":"john-piper","display_name":"John Piper","avatar_url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/?s=96&d=mm&r=g","0":null,"1":"","2":"","3":"","4":"","5":"","6":"","7":"","8":""}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10136","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10136"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10136\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10137"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10136"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pravdavlaske.sk\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ppma_author?post=10136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}